I know how much you want to lose weight. You have tried for many years. You’ve been successful in that you lost weight on whatever diet you were on at that moment, assuming you were “good”. But then, the inevitable happens. You crave foods that you love that you have restricted for so long. You…
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Abolishing the “Eat This, Don’t Eat That” Rule
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerPortion control is something that is always stressed when discussing weight loss and healthy eating. It is undeniable that the portions of food people eat are much larger than they were years ago, which is a direct contributor to the obesity epidemic this country is facing. Several experiments have recently been conducted at Vanderbilt…
How Your Eating Environment Can Positively Affect Your Appreciation of Your Food
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerHow often do you actually take the time to appreciate the food that is on the plate in front of you or in your mouth? The food that is giving you fuel to power through your day and energy for your workouts? For most of my clients, not often at all. Until they start…
“But I Don’t Want the Banana to Go to Waste!”
/2 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerHow many times have you eaten something because if you didn’t, it would likely spoil and go in the garbage? For a lot of mindless eaters, they eat in order not to waste food, not because they are hungry. Several factors can fuel this desire to waste-not. Maybe it’s a cost factor. After all,…
Do You Pay Your Dues in the Clean the Plate Club?
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerWhen you are eating, do you pay attention to how satisfied you are getting? Or, do you eat until all the food on the plate is gone? I ask you these questions because as a chronic dieter, you more than likely have become a member (or hopefully an ex-member) of the “clean the plate”…
Being Mindful With Godiva Chocolate
/2 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOne of the beautiful things about being an intuitive eater is being able to eat what I love! I don’t have to worry anymore about whether eating a particular food will cause me to gain weight or not. One of the doubts I often hear from my clients is whether or not they will…
How to Manage Your Emotions without Turning to Food
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOne of the things that come up often in my work with my clients is how they deal with emotional eating. We all experience different emotions throughout a given day. For some, there might be more than others. Such emotions include anxiety, loneliness and sadness. Other more subtle emotions that often might lead you to…
Are You Married to the Scale?
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerLife as a chronic dieter is plagued with ups and downs, weight loss and weight gain. You want to find that one diet that works better than the rest, which will finally give you what you want, a new body. Well, a diet is not going to get you there. As you may realize by…
Do You Fall Into the Fat-Free Trap?
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerIf you’ve been following my iEat Mindfully™ intuitive eating blog for some time, then hopefully you are well on your journey to becoming an intuitive eater or are already basking in the glory of being an intuitive eater. It is important to note that the nutrition discussion of foods that are considered “healthy” is best…
The 3 Pieces of the Chronic Dieting Puzzle, Why it Doesn’t Work and the Puzzle that Does
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerObedience, willpower, and failure are three connecting pieces to a chronic dieters puzzle. Once you have one set in stone, the other two follow. I call this a “puzzle” because as a chronic dieter you believe that you need all three pieces to feel good about yourself and to get to a satisfying weight. …
Food Deprivation Leading to Rebound Eating
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOverindulging in a food item that you restrict is common if you are a chronic dieter. This is called deprivation backlash-rebound eating. Here’s a common scenario: you deprive yourself of a certain food, such as your beloved chocolate because you are on a diet and you are not allowed to have chocolate, right? Well…
The Guilt of Food Talk
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerDo you have a set of unreasonable rules that dieting has created? Is your head constantly filled with chanting words that promote or demote you from eating food that you love? This is the food police voice that is constantly telling you what you should and shouldn’t eat. It’s sort of like the angel and…
How to Wipe Out the Foods on Your “What-Not” to Eat List
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerI love lists. I live by lists. Just ask my family members. I have a lot of lists. They help me to prioritize my tasks, stay organized and accomplish what needs to get done. How often do you make lists throughout your day? To-do lists, shopping lists, what-not to eat lists? Lists play…
Take A Stand Against the Scale
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerDo you find yourself hopping on the scale every morning? Do you rejoice on the days you’ve lost a pound, and scold yourself on the days you stayed the same? The scale starts to have the ultimate power of how you feel and treat yourself during the day. This leads to a cycle of under…
Did I Eat It?
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerI constantly find myself thinking where did the time go? Or, I have so much to do, there just are not enough hours in the day! I am sure you can relate. Society has put so much emphasis on rushing around and getting as much as we possibly can get done in 24 hours. It…
International NO Diet Day
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerToday is a very important day: International NO Diet Day! The purpose of this nationally recognized day is to raise awareness of the harmful effects unhealthy dieting can have as well as the importance of respecting and accepting body types. The goal is to teach people how to have a healthy relationship with food…
Food Shaming and How to Break Out of the Cycle
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerAre you suffering from food shame? Have you recently encountered someone telling you not to eat something because it is fattening? Do you get looks from people if you eat a cookie? Or maybe you are the one engaging in these behaviors and judging others based on what they eat. The concept of classifying food…
No Thank You Miss Food Pusher
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerAround this time of year with the holidays of Passover and Easter just around the corner, it is a good time to talk about a category of people I like to call “food pushers.” These people mean well, but they have a tendency to start interfering with the hunger and fullness cues you have been…
Intuitive Eating: Make it a Family Affair
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerMany of the eating behaviors that you are trying to change have likely been behaviors and habits you learned while growing up through your childhood. Statements such as “you can’t leave the table until you clean your plate” or “clean your room and we will go for ice cream” puts food in the category of…
Herbs & Spices for Added Taste, Pleasure and Health
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOne of the greatest pulls for a chronic dieter when they embrace the concept of starting on the intuitive eating journey is the idea that they can enjoy their food once again. How does this sound to you? Eating what you truly want to eat, and not what you think you should eat. Part…
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