When you are eating, do you pay attention to how satisfied you are getting? Or, do you eat until all the food on the plate is gone? I ask you these questions because as a chronic dieter, you more than likely have become a member (or hopefully an ex-member) of the “clean the plate”…
How to Manage Your Emotions without Turning to Food
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOne of the things that come up often in my work with my clients is how they deal with emotional eating. We all experience different emotions throughout a given day. For some, there might be more than others. Such emotions include anxiety, loneliness and sadness. Other more subtle emotions that often might lead you to…
The 3 Pieces of the Chronic Dieting Puzzle, Why it Doesn’t Work and the Puzzle that Does
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerObedience, willpower, and failure are three connecting pieces to a chronic dieters puzzle. Once you have one set in stone, the other two follow. I call this a “puzzle” because as a chronic dieter you believe that you need all three pieces to feel good about yourself and to get to a satisfying weight. …
Food Deprivation Leading to Rebound Eating
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOverindulging in a food item that you restrict is common if you are a chronic dieter. This is called deprivation backlash-rebound eating. Here’s a common scenario: you deprive yourself of a certain food, such as your beloved chocolate because you are on a diet and you are not allowed to have chocolate, right? Well…
The Guilt of Food Talk
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerDo you have a set of unreasonable rules that dieting has created? Is your head constantly filled with chanting words that promote or demote you from eating food that you love? This is the food police voice that is constantly telling you what you should and shouldn’t eat. It’s sort of like the angel and…
How to Wipe Out the Foods on Your “What-Not” to Eat List
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerI love lists. I live by lists. Just ask my family members. I have a lot of lists. They help me to prioritize my tasks, stay organized and accomplish what needs to get done. How often do you make lists throughout your day? To-do lists, shopping lists, what-not to eat lists? Lists play…
Take A Stand Against the Scale
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerDo you find yourself hopping on the scale every morning? Do you rejoice on the days you’ve lost a pound, and scold yourself on the days you stayed the same? The scale starts to have the ultimate power of how you feel and treat yourself during the day. This leads to a cycle of under…
International NO Diet Day
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerToday is a very important day: International NO Diet Day! The purpose of this nationally recognized day is to raise awareness of the harmful effects unhealthy dieting can have as well as the importance of respecting and accepting body types. The goal is to teach people how to have a healthy relationship with food…
Intuitive Eating: Make it a Family Affair
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerMany of the eating behaviors that you are trying to change have likely been behaviors and habits you learned while growing up through your childhood. Statements such as “you can’t leave the table until you clean your plate” or “clean your room and we will go for ice cream” puts food in the category of…
My Experience with Comfortable Satiety
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerWhen working with my clients, it is often hard for them to identify what comfortable satiety feels like. This is truly understandable. If you have been eating mindlessly and/or cleaning the plate without consideration if you’ve even had enough (“how can I leave food over, I’m entitled to eat this amount on my diet?”), then…
Freedom From Dieting….Finally!
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerHere we are again! Mid January, the start of a new year and the media bombardment of promises to help you fulfill your weight loss goals for this year. Click here to watch and listen, or read below. You can’t read a magazine, listen to the radio or watch TV without a commercial or advertisement…
Freedom From Dieting….Finally!
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerHere we are again! January, the start of a new year and the media bombardment of promises to help you fulfill your weight loss goals for this year. You can’t read a magazine, listen to the radio or watch TV without a commercial or advertisement touting the latest diet, meal replacement drink, detox program…
New Year, New Gimmick
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerIt is a vicious cycle: manufacturers constantly promoting weight loss gimmicks to consumers who continually give into these products which, in turn only prevents them from living a healthy lifestyle and keeping the weight off for good. Well, now that we are entering into a new year, it seems as if researchers are trying…
Writing the Right Way
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerIf you have ever tried dieting in the past, it is likely you have attempted at some point to keep a food journal. In theory, this is a good way to hold yourself accountable for the food you’re eating, to notice when you may overeat, and to gauge any other patterns and habits that perhaps…
Relax…and Enjoy Your Food
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerGiven my profession, I spend a lot of time speaking and thinking about food and how it relates to the lives of my clients. However, what I have noticed when meeting with new clients who are coming to me from a place of chronic dieting, they too speak and think about food all the time,…
What Does it Mean to Be “Feel Hungry” and “Feel Full”?
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerIf you have been following my iEat Mindfully™ blog, you have probably seen me use the terminology “honor your hunger” and “respect your fullness.” You may read these phrases and think that it sounds nice, but do you know what it actual means? Do you think you’re doing this but aren’t exactly sure? I want…
A Comparison between the Evolution of the Food Graphic and the Intuitive Eater’s Journey
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerOver the years, we have seen the USDA food graphic evolve. The evolution of this graphic speaks a lot to living an intuitive eating lifestyle. The old graphic used to break down the food groups into how many servings of each group you should eat each day. Servings were not defined, so you were forced…
Am I Always So Bubbly and Happy?
/2 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerAs I sat down today to write my post for the iEat Mindfully™ blog, I wasn’t quite sure what I was going to write about. But then it came to me. Earlier today, I was told for about the 10th time this week, how bubbly and happy I am. “Am I always like that, my…
The Trials of Technology and Intuitive Eating
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerDid you ever look around while you are walking somewhere and notice the people around you? Is it more common that they are on a smartphone, listening to music or interacting with some electronic device rather than conversing with one another and paying attention to their surroundings? I know for me the answer yes. …
The Many Voices of Hunger
/0 Comments/by Bonnie R. GillerThere are many facets of intuitive eating…thus the “10 principles”, which are what I call your empowerment tools to help you acquire and understand your internal cues that drive your hunger and satiety. If you are unfamiliar with the 10 Principles of Intuitive Eating, read more about them here. One of the intuitive eating…
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